Wednesday, January 28, 2015

It's the simple things that matter!

One of the things we often fail to recognize is that it's the simple things that can make the greatest impact in a relationship.  Things like a phone call in the middle of the day to say Hi, holding hands, a hug.  Even simple things like taking out the garbage without being asked, putting dirty clothes in the hamper or folding clean clothes and putting them away have a great impact.

None of these things is a big deal in and of themselves.  It is the message they convey that makes them a big deal.  And this message says "I care."  There is nothing more important than letting those around you know that you care.  You don't have to do special things for someone everyday, but it's nice.  It is the random acts of kindness that can also have the biggest impact on someone's day.  In addition, a smile can mean more to someone than you will ever possibly know.

The really great thing about doing any little act of kindness for someone else is the impact that it has on you!  How often have you done a "good deed" or complimented someone and then walked away feeling better because you brightened their day?  The little acts of service or gestures of kindness are incredibly powerful for strengthening any relationship.

What have you done today to make someone's day brighter?

1 comment:

  1. Making someone else's life better starts with the right attitude. Begin your day with a positive attitude, and believe, really believe the day will go well. We all get more out of life when we step into a positive attitude. With every person I meet, my attitude is they deserve a smile and a warm hello. You may not always get the reaction you want from this gesture, but I guarantee you will step a little lighter throughout your day when you let go of the negative and pour on the positive. And remember your positive attitude starts with the people you live with and begin each day. It works for me!

    ReplyDelete